It's difficult to be seen as a demon and mischaracterized. I don't mischaracterize the other side. And I respect that abortion really raises moral, ethical, religious questions for people.
Do you believe in reincarnation? Even if you do, you may find this concept startling: Carol Bowman suggests that in some families, people who have died are reincarnated -- to the same family. Does this explain, you suppose, why your daughter seems to be just like your Dad's grandmother?